Grace under pressure

Every situation has parts that you can change and parts that you can't. People who are resilient focus on what they can change. People who spend their time thinking about why something bad happened to them or what somebody else did wrong give up their power to control what happens to them. Being able to control the things you can in your life is an important part of becoming an adult. This doesn't mean you shouldn't blame somebody if they did something wrong, but you should keep going and not get hung up on the challenging things.