People who deal best with problems are those who creatively look at all
their options instead of getting frustrated. Resourceful people look at the
problem, what they can and can't do about it, and who can help them before
they try to find the best solution. Ignoring a problem, spending all your
time blaming somebody else, or getting frustrated that things aren't right
won't make anything better and may actually make problems worse.
People who concentrate on what they can change tend to be better survivors
rather than becoming victims; they can turn bad situations to their
advantage, and as a result they can live happier and more productive lives.