Part I: Relationship conflict and good times journal

Arguments come up in every relationship over time. Each person in a friendship or romantic relationship brings his or her own ideas of what he or she wants in the relationship. When the two people have different ideas about the relationship, conflicts happen. Sometimes one person doesn't realize that there's a problem. Often two people find themselves angry with one another without really knowing why.

You might have a lot of conflict with your parents. At this time in your life, your relationship with your parents is changing. You are becoming more independent. Your parents may be afraid to give you too much freedom. They have cared for you since you were born and may still be afraid that you will get hurt. This can create a tug-of-war between you.